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Staying safe as a creator isn’t always easy.Whether you’re live on stream, traveling to conventions, or just navigating day-to-day life, creators face unique risks, from doxxing and harassment to parasocial interactions.This site brings together practical tips and trusted resources to help you protect your privacy, set boundaries, and feel confident and safe showing up both URL and IRL.You deserve to create, connect, and show up in your community without fear.
Think of this as your safety handbook—made by a creator, for creators.

protecting your digital presence

Your online footprint is often bigger than you'd think. These steps can help you protect your personal data, reduce risk of doxxing, and keep your online presence separate.

  • Use a P.O. Box or virtual mailbox instead of your home address for brand mail.

  • Keep your legal name off site domains and social media. Use WHOIS privacy protection.

  • Separate work and personal accounts (email, banking, social logins).

  • Enable two-factor authentication on EVERYTHING (ideally app-based over SMS).

  • Regularly audit old posts for personal info (school, workplace, hometown clues).

  • Limit what you share about your daily routine and location online.

  • Use a password manager for unique, strong logins rather than repeating passwords.

  • Avoid sharing photos with identifiable landmarks (your street, license plates, your home).

Handling Harassment & Doxxing

Harassment is never your fault, but having a plan helps you respond more proactively. These tools and strategies can help you document incidents and know where to turn for support.

  • Keep a contact list handy (mods, platform support, friends & family, law enforcement).

  • Document incidents of harassment thoroughly (screenshots, clips, URLs, timestamps).

  • Familiarize yourself with reporting tools for platforms you create content on.

  • Share (limited) personal data with your mods so they can help handle emergencies.

  • Pre-write statements in case of leaks or harassment to minimize panic.

  • Don’t respond directly to harassers. Let your mods handle filtering/blocking.

  • FOR STREAMERS: Have a scene where your audio is muted and camera is hidden (maybe even a disclaimer saying that there's an incident and you're handling things ASAP). Then run a ton of ads to scare harassers away! A lot of streamers have this set up as an "emergency button" on their Stream Deck.

irl event safety

Before you stream or head to an event, TAKE FIVE.
These quick steps go a long way toward keeping you safe:

  • Turn on 2FA: Secure all accounts with app-based authentication.

  • Share your location with a trusted contact through Find My (iOS) or Google Maps (Android).

  • Set up Emergency SOS. Enable one-press calling on your phone and smartwatch.

  • Check in with your mods/event buddies. Have a safety plan in place for emergencies.

  • Scan your socials. Remove any fresh posts that reveal location or personal details.

Being a creator doesn’t end when you log off. Conventions and meetups are exciting, but they carry risks. These tips can help you feel safe and set boundaries while enjoying the experience.

  • Never share your hotel or AirBNB publicly or with people you don't trust.

  • Meet up with trusted friends or groups, and avoid wandering around alone or late at night.

  • Set clear boundaries for meet & greets (asking for photos and expectations with physical contact).

  • Use a buddy system when traveling between venues and hotels.

  • Keep photo ID on you at all times. If you're not a US citizen, have a photocopy of your passport.

  • Keep emergency contacts saved and written on a card in your bag.

  • Carry a portable phone charger and share your location with a trusted person.

  • Trust your gut. It’s okay to walk away from uncomfortable encounters!

  • Don’t announce your exact schedule in real-time on social media.

RIDESHARE TIP

In apps like Uber and Lyft, you can set up trusted contacts, share your trip in real time, and use an in-app emergency button. Both apps also offer optional audio recording features in some regions, adding an extra layer of safety during your ride.

professional boundaries

Collaborations are awesome, but protecting yourself professionally is just as important as protecting yourself personally. Setting clear boundaries keeps you safer in the long run.

  • Use contracts when collaborating, especially if money or travel is involved.

  • Avoid giving out your number. Use apps like Google Meet or Discord for business comms.

  • Separate personal financial accounts from creator-related ones. Make a business PayPal!

  • Don’t let others pressure you into unsafe situations for “networking” reasons.

  • Vet any sponsors, managers, or companies with trusted mutuals before signing agreements.

emergency & crisis resources

If something goes wrong, knowing where to turn can make all the difference. These resources can connect you with immediate help during a personal crisis or safety threat.

  • US ONLY: Dial 911 for emergencies; call 988 for mental health crises.

  • International hotlines: Find a helpline here.

  • Android Safety Features: Power button pressed 5 times calls local emergency services.

  • Google Maps: Emergency location-sharing lets friends track you until you turn it off.

  • Siri Shortcut (iPhone): Automatically texts your location to chosen contacts.

  • Life360: a real-time location-sharing and SOS button app for your phone.

YOUR SMART WATCH IS ACTUALLY PRETTY SMART. HERE'S WHY:

  • Apple Watch Emergency SOS: Press and hold the side button until the Emergency SOS slider appears; holding longer auto-calls emergency services and shares your location.

  • Apple Watch Fall Detection: If enabled, it auto-calls 911 if you’re immobile after a fall. This is useful in a harassment or physical threat situation.

  • Galaxy Watch SOS: Quickly press the Home key 3 times. This sends SOS messages with your location to pre-configured contacts.

practical safety tools

Sometimes it’s the little things that keep you safer: blurring out an address, securing your browser, or double-checking who has your data. These tools make safety easier to manage.

  • Privacy Tools: Blur license plates or other private info in photos with built-in phone tools.

  • Safe Browsing: Use incognito browsing and turn off browser features like auto-fill.

  • Identity Protection: Services like DeleteMe or Incogni to reduce data broker exposure.

  • At Events: Discord, Instagram, or Twitter/X groups with friends for check-ins.

Curated by @TheMayhemMermaid with 🩵 for creators like you.
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LAST UPDATED: September 22, 2025